What if a date is not a chance to please someone or find a partner, but a thoughtful way to get to know yourself fully, to reveal different facets of your personality? To find out what satisfies, pleases, excites you, revives your interest in another person? Why do you go on a second date with a man in whose presence you feel uncomfortable, embarrassed to eat French fries and laugh out loud? In this guide, the author uses her own example to teach girls to be the main characters in their lives. Do not idealise candidates for partners and do not get dramatic when everything goes wrong. To calmly reject those who have not met their match. Do not dissolve in other people, but develop in different areas to become the best version of yourself